How to Find a Booty Call for Casual Sex

By | March 7, 2017

If you are single and you want to sow your wild oats before you settle down; you’re going to have some down time between flings. That’s when you need a booty call. A booty call is one of those sexual partners that you can have sex with multiple times and still not have to worry about a commitment. You mutually use each other for sex and you are both fine with it. Not every casual sex encounter is going to turn into a booty call, but you can acquire one through your exploits if you make the right moves.

A booty call is usually an unspoken agreement. It is not often something that is discussed between both parties. It’s a mutual understanding and you don’t have to feel obligated to discuss the terms. The agreement will come out naturally in conversation when you both realize that you are after the same thing. If she isn’t looking for something serious, she will tell you, and you should tell her the same. If she says she doesn’t want a serious relationship and still flirts with you, she probably wants to continue having casual sex. If you agree, but still show how attracted you are to her, you could have a booty call on your hands.

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Finding a Booty Call Online

Some casual dating sites will make it easier to find a booty call online by catering to a specific niche. Many of these sites will even have an option that you can choose when you sign up that indicates that you are looking for a friend with benefits. Some of them actually use the words “booty call”. This takes a lot of the guess work out of finding one of these usually unspoken arrangements. You don’t have to look for a way to mention it casually in conversation because it’s laid out in writing on your profile. Most online hookups are often looking for a one night stand if it is not clearly indicated that you want an ongoing, purely sexual, relationship. Any one of these casual encounters is a potential booty call, so there is always potential for one of them to turn into an ongoing thing.

If it’s not made clear that you are looking for a friend with benefits on a casual dating site, you should wait until after the first time you have met and had sex before you ask if it can be a recurring thing. Sometimes it can come up in conversation at the end of the night and you tell her that you want to see her again. You can bring up a possible booty call arrangement to reassure her that you are not asking for a relationship.

If she’s falling for you, she can’t be a booty call

If, at any time, she starts falling for you, or vice versa; you must break it off immediately. You can’t keep leading her on just to use her for sex. Sure, you were using her for sex the whole time, but she was using you as well. Once it’s not mutual, you must decide whether you are going to walk away for good or try romance. Those are the only two choices you have if you want to do the right thing for all involved.

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