There are multiple reasons why younger guys are attracted to older women or “cougars”. The main reason is that they don’t play games like many of the girls in the younger generation. These ladies have been around the block and they know how to treat a man, in and out of the bedroom. They don’t take your shit and they don’t play games to get what they want. They are no nonsense and would love nothing more than to give a younger man the best sex of his life.
How to Hook Up With Cougars & MILFS
- Go where the cougars roam – Everyone knows that local bar where the older ladies hang out and the older men are there trying to pick them up. The jukebox is loud and the drinks are strong. You can also find some cougars in some of the more popular trendy bars. They are usually higher caliber ladies, but there isn’t as much of a selection. You can also find a lot of cougars roaming on dating sites. Some niche sites are exclusive to cougars and MILFs.
- Make eye contact – When you are out at a bar, or anywhere else, and you see an older lady you are attracted to; make eye contact. If she is interested in you, she will look back. She’s not going to try to act like she’s not looking. That’s a young girl’s game. She will lock eyes with you and you need to be ready or you’ll look like a deer in headlights. Smile at her and see if she smiles back. If she does, it’s time to move closer.
- Buy her a drink – Approach her and ask her if you can buy her a drink. Get one for yourself and talk her up while you drink together. If things are going well, offer to buy her a shot. Older ladies will take that shot in a second and, by this time, they already know where this is going. If an older woman goes past the stage where you buy her a shot, you know that you’re in… if you don’t screw it up.
- Compliment her – You should do this with every woman you date. They will always appreciate it. Every woman likes to be complimented, if it’s genuine. Think about what you like best about her and what drew you to her and tell her.
- Show interest – Don’t treat her like a lay. She might be older, but you should still show her respect. Show genuine interest in what she’s all about and ask questions about her interests and turn-ons.
- Ask if she’s ever dated a younger guy – This question is what is going to take it to the next level with a cougar. This will let her know, for sure, that you are into her. She will be well aware that you said it because you want that younger guy to be you. From this point, you can step up the flirting.
- Flirting – You should have done some flirting up to this point, but now it’s time to escalate. She will appreciate your youthful energy and the need to touch her and make her smile. The better she responds, the more you should escalate your flirting.
- Take her home – She wants you. Ask if she wants to go back to your place or hers. You don’t have to pretend with her or coax her into coming. If you made the right moves up to this point, you’re about to get laid by an older woman.
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